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	<title>The Redhead Said &#187; Charlene Jaszewski</title>
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		<title>Pumpkin Cheesecake Bread Recipe</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 11 Jan 2012 22:26:59 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Charlene Jaszewski</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[<p><a href="http://www.theredheadsaid.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/01/Screen-Shot-2012-01-11-at-3.58.27-PM.png" rel="lightbox[2390]"></a>When it gets cold outside, I want to be cozy inside my house baking up a storm. One of my favorite comfort foods is pumpkin cheesecake bread. The last time I made this I used gluten-free cake &#38; pastry flour from <a href="http://www.cooqiglutenfree.com/products">Cooqi</a> and the texture was wonderful.</p> <p>Enjoy!</p> <p>&#160;</p> <p>PUMPKIN CHEESECAKE BREAD<br [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a href="http://www.theredheadsaid.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/01/Screen-Shot-2012-01-11-at-3.58.27-PM.png" rel="lightbox[2390]"><img class="alignleft size-medium wp-image-2391" style="margin: 10px;" title="Screen Shot 2012-01-11 at 3.58.27 PM" src="http://www.theredheadsaid.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/01/Screen-Shot-2012-01-11-at-3.58.27-PM-223x300.png" alt="" width="223" height="300" /></a>When it gets cold outside, I want to be cozy inside my house baking up a storm. One of my favorite comfort foods is pumpkin cheesecake bread. The last time I made this I used gluten-free cake &amp; pastry flour from <a href="http://www.cooqiglutenfree.com/products">Cooqi</a> and the texture was wonderful.</p>
<p>Enjoy!</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>PUMPKIN CHEESECAKE BREAD<br />
Cook Time: 70 minutes<br />
Ingredients:</p>
<p>* Filling:<br />
* 1 package (8 ounce) cream cheese, at room temperature<br />
* 1/2 cup granulated sugar<br />
* 1 tablespoon all-purpose flour (or gluten-free flour)<br />
* 1 large egg<br />
* 1 tablespoon finely grated orange peel</p>
<p>Bread:<br />
* 1 2/3 cups all-purpose flour<br />
* 1 teaspoon baking soda<br />
* 1/2 teaspoon salt<br />
* 1/2 teaspoon ground cinnamon<br />
* 1/2 teaspoon ground cloves<br />
* 1/4 teaspoon ginger<br />
* 1/4 teaspoon nutmeg<br />
* 1 cup pumpkin puree, canned or homemade<br />
* 1/2 cup vegetable oil<br />
* 2 large eggs<br />
* 1 1/2 cups granulated sugar<br />
* 1 cup chopped pecans or walnuts, optional</p>
<p>Preparation:<br />
Preheat oven to 325°. Lightly grease two 8x4x3-inch loaf pans. In a medium mixing bowl, combine cream cheese, 1/2 cup sugar, 1 tablespoon flour, 1 egg, and the orange peel; beat until smooth and creamy. Set aside.</p>
<p>Into another bowl, sift 1 2/3 cup flour, baking soda, salt, cinnamon, cloves, ginger, and nutmeg; set aside. Put pumpkin puree, vegetable oil, 2 eggs and 1 1/2 cup sugar in a large mixing bowl; beat well. Stir the pumpkin mixture into the flour mixture just until combined. Fold in the pecans or walnuts, if using.</p>
<p>Pour half of the pumpkin bread batter evenly into the two prepared loaf pans. Spoon cream cheese mixture on top of pumpkin batter layer and then pour on the remaining pumpkin batter.</p>
<p>Bake in preheated 325° oven for 60 to 70 minutes, or until a toothpick inserted into center of the loaf comes out clean. Cool bread in pans for 10 minutes; remove to a rack to cool completely.<br />
Pumpkin bread recipe makes 2 loaves.</p>
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		<title>The Yeti with Ennui</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 15 Nov 2011 19:47:47 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Charlene Jaszewski</dc:creator>
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		<title>Moodle.net is dead, the end of an era</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 26 Sep 2011 19:43:26 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Charlene Jaszewski</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[<p>Way back when the internet was just text pages and marketing had not yet taken over everything, I bought moodle.net and put up my very first website. It had an animated GIF for the front page and everyTHANG.</p> <p><a href="http://www.theredheadsaid.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/09/moodlenetfront1.jpg" rel="lightbox[2370]"></a></p> <p><a href="http://www.theredheadsaid.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/09/moodlenetfront2.jpg" rel="lightbox[2370]"></a></p> <p>&#8220;moodle&#8221; was a handle I had chosen back in 1996 when [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Way back when the internet was just text pages and marketing had not yet taken over everything, I bought <strong>moodle.net</strong> and put up my very first website. It had an animated GIF for the front page and everyTHANG.</p>
<p><a href="http://www.theredheadsaid.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/09/moodlenetfront1.jpg" rel="lightbox[2370]"><img class="aligncenter size-full wp-image-2372" title="moodlenetfront1" src="http://www.theredheadsaid.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/09/moodlenetfront1.jpg" alt="" width="633" height="489" /></a></p>
<p><a href="http://www.theredheadsaid.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/09/moodlenetfront2.jpg" rel="lightbox[2370]"><img class="aligncenter size-full wp-image-2371" title="moodlenetfront2" src="http://www.theredheadsaid.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/09/moodlenetfront2.jpg" alt="" width="755" height="541" /></a></p>
<p>&#8220;moodle&#8221; was a handle I had chosen back in 1996 when I joined one of the first Bulletin Board Systems (BBS) on the young web, Bitstream Underground (BSU), where I had made lovely friends that I still have today. Moodle.net became a place where I tested out my web design skills, and put up stuff that amused me.</p>
<p>I did hard coding for moodle.net, but I eventually discovered blogging platforms and I moved on to blogger and livejournal. I kept moodle as my email all the way up until 2008 until I sold moodle.net domain to the gentleman who authored the moodle programming language. I kept charlene@moodle.net and he provided a forward to my new domains. But nowadays I have become <strong>theredheadsaid</strong> as my online identity, and sadly the moodle.net email has become a spam magnet, having been on the intertubez for 13 years. So i made the decision today to pull the plug on my moodle.net identity.</p>
<p>Goodbye moodle.net, I have loved ye.</p>
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		<title>Make something 365 Blog</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 29 Jul 2011 06:59:02 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Charlene Jaszewski</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Art Break]]></category>

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		<description><![CDATA[<p style="text-align: center;"><a href="http://makesomething365.blogspot.com/"></a></p> <p>If you&#8217;re a creative person you know that sometimes you need a box to design your way out of. Many people find the &#8220;make X once a day&#8221; idea very fruitful. And there&#8217;s a lovely blog that chronicles just that!</p> <p><a href="http://makesomething365.blogspot.com/">http://makesomething365.blogspot.com/</a></p> <p>One woman makes an <a href="http://owladay365.tumblr.com/">owl a day</a>&#8230;</p> <p><a [...]]]></description>
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<p>If you&#8217;re a creative person you know that sometimes you need a box to design your way out of. Many people find the &#8220;make X once a day&#8221; idea very fruitful. And there&#8217;s a lovely blog that chronicles just that!</p>
<p><a href="http://makesomething365.blogspot.com/">http://makesomething365.blogspot.com/</a></p>
<p>One woman makes an <a href="http://owladay365.tumblr.com/">owl a day</a>&#8230;</p>
<p><a href="http://www.theredheadsaid.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/07/Picture-40.png" rel="lightbox[2349]"><img class="aligncenter size-full wp-image-2351" title="Picture 40" src="http://www.theredheadsaid.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/07/Picture-40.png" alt="" width="375" height="394" /></a>This gentleman makes one imaginary creature a day</p>
<p><a href="http://www.theredheadsaid.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/07/Picture-41.png" rel="lightbox[2349]"><img class="aligncenter size-medium wp-image-2352" title="Picture 41" src="http://www.theredheadsaid.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/07/Picture-41-300x245.png" alt="" width="300" height="245" /></a><a href="http://oddments.blogspot.com/">Oddments &amp; Curiosities: odd creatures on odd days</a><a href="http://www.theredheadsaid.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/07/Picture-41.png" rel="lightbox[2349]">&#8230;</a></p>
<p>One guy just decided to  <a href="http://www.itistheworldthatmadeyousmall.com/projects/msced/">Make Something Cool Every Day</a> like this awesome &#8220;emoticikhans&#8221;</p>
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		<title>Bill Cunningham New York Movie</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 25 Jul 2011 09:23:30 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Charlene Jaszewski</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[<p><a href="http://www.theredheadsaid.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/07/Screen-shot-2011-07-25-at-2.20.59-AM.png" rel="lightbox[2339]"></a><br /> I&#8217;ve been a fan of the <a href="http://www.thesartorialist.blogspot.com/">Sartorialist&#8217;s</a> blog for a while now. The Sartorialist (Scott Schuman) is a photographer of street fashion in New York and other cosmopolitan cities around the world. Little did I know, he was not the first to do this. The master of the fashion and [...]]]></description>
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I&#8217;ve been a fan of the <a href="http://www.thesartorialist.blogspot.com/">Sartorialist&#8217;s</a> blog for a while now. The Sartorialist (Scott Schuman) is a photographer of street fashion in New York and other cosmopolitan cities around the world. Little did I know, he was not the first to do this. The master of the fashion and street photographers is Bill Cunningham. Vogue editor Anna Wintour says of him, &#8220;We dressed for Bill.&#8221;</p>
<p>The movie, Bill Cunningham New York is a limited release film about the New York photographer Bill Cunningham.</p>
<p>After watching this film all I could think was &#8220;what a pure soul.&#8221; I could fill this post with all the platitudes in sound bytes that Bill uttered, but it would not do it him justice. Bill Cunningham is a man who had such pure love of fashion, be it on the runway or on people in the street; a man who didn&#8217;t care for money or fame (but had both); a man who has such a child-like enthusiasm for his work and for life. His subjects could be rich or poor, famous or not, he didn&#8217;t care; he just cared about what people were wearing and if it was fascinating.</p>
<p>Here&#8217;s an example: the film showed him on a trip to Paris. At one point, the french paparazzi were swarming Catherine Deneuve. Bill was asked why he wasn&#8217;t taking pictures of her. He answered simply, &#8220;She wasn&#8217;t wearing anything interesting.&#8221;</p>
<p>So do yourself a favor, catch the movie Bill Cunningham New York at your local indieplex. <a href="http://www.zeitgeistfilms.com/billcunninghamnewyork/playdates.html"> (see schedule here)</a>. If you can&#8217;t find it locally, never fear, it comes out on DVD on September 13, 2011!</p>
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		<title>The intriguing and morbid photographs of Mariel Clayton</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 25 Jul 2011 03:46:53 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Charlene Jaszewski</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[<p style="text-align: center;">Have you ever thought of Barbie dolls as the subject of a photographic series? Mariel Clayton has. In her <a href="http://www.thephotographymarielclayton.com">posed tableaus</a>, Barbie is used as a historical portrayer, noir star, and stylish murderess. Enjoy!</p> <p><a href="http://www.theredheadsaid.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/07/Screen-shot-2011-07-24-at-11.39.52-PM.png" rel="lightbox[2341]"></a></p>]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p style="text-align: center;">Have you ever thought of Barbie dolls as the subject of a photographic series? Mariel Clayton has. In her <a href="http://www.thephotographymarielclayton.com">posed tableaus</a>, Barbie is used as a historical portrayer, noir star, and stylish murderess. Enjoy!</p>
<p><a href="http://www.theredheadsaid.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/07/Screen-shot-2011-07-24-at-11.39.52-PM.png" rel="lightbox[2341]"><img class="aligncenter size-full wp-image-2342" title="Screen shot 2011-07-24 at 11.39.52 PM" src="http://www.theredheadsaid.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/07/Screen-shot-2011-07-24-at-11.39.52-PM.png" alt="" width="493" height="405" /></a></p>
<div id="attachment_2343" class="wp-caption aligncenter" style="width: 309px"><a href="http://www.theredheadsaid.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/07/Screen-shot-2011-07-24-at-11.41.20-PM.png" rel="lightbox[2341]"><img class="size-full wp-image-2343" title="Screen shot 2011-07-24 at 11.41.20 PM" src="http://www.theredheadsaid.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/07/Screen-shot-2011-07-24-at-11.41.20-PM.png" alt="" width="299" height="462" /></a><p class="wp-caption-text">Claytons&#39; version of &quot;le Mort du Morat&quot;</p></div>
<div id="attachment_2345" class="wp-caption aligncenter" style="width: 334px"><a href="http://www.theredheadsaid.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/07/Screen-shot-2011-07-24-at-11.42.57-PM1.png" rel="lightbox[2341]"><img class="size-full wp-image-2345" title="Screen shot 2011-07-24 at 11.42.57 PM" src="http://www.theredheadsaid.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/07/Screen-shot-2011-07-24-at-11.42.57-PM1.png" alt="" width="324" height="434" /></a><p class="wp-caption-text">Chado</p></div>
<div id="attachment_2346" class="wp-caption aligncenter" style="width: 421px"><a href="http://www.theredheadsaid.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/07/Screen-shot-2011-07-24-at-11.45.51-PM.png" rel="lightbox[2341]"><img class="size-full wp-image-2346" title="Screen shot 2011-07-24 at 11.45.51 PM" src="http://www.theredheadsaid.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/07/Screen-shot-2011-07-24-at-11.45.51-PM.png" alt="" width="411" height="438" /></a><p class="wp-caption-text">Eleanor Rigby</p></div>
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		<title>outdoor animation Installation that just blew my mind</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 24 Jul 2011 20:20:40 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Charlene Jaszewski</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[<p>Found this on tumblr today (like I find most amazing visual things). Big Bang Big Boom, what can only be described as an outdoor animation installation. I thought it was just painting but it&#8217;s sculpture, animation, evolution, social commentary. it&#8217;s just&#8230;amazing.</p> <p>Just watch it!</p> <p></p> <p><a href="http://vimeo.com/13085676">BIG BANG BIG BOOM &#8211; the new wall-painted animation by [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Found this on tumblr today (like I find most amazing visual things). Big Bang Big Boom, what can only be described as an outdoor animation installation. I thought it was just painting but it&#8217;s sculpture, animation, evolution, social commentary. it&#8217;s just&#8230;amazing.</p>
<p>Just watch it!</p>
<p><iframe src="http://player.vimeo.com/video/13085676?title=0&amp;byline=0&amp;portrait=0" frameborder="0" width="400" height="300"></iframe></p>
<p><a href="http://vimeo.com/13085676">BIG BANG BIG BOOM &#8211; the new wall-painted animation by BLU</a> from <a href="http://vimeo.com/blu">blu</a> on <a href="http://vimeo.com">Vimeo</a>.</p>
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		<title>New York pickup stories</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 10 Jul 2011 00:35:11 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Charlene Jaszewski</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[<p><a href="http://www.theredheadsaid.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/07/Screen-shot-2011-07-09-at-7.28.13-PM.png" rel="lightbox[2327]"></a></p> <p>I’m from a small town in Wisconsin, and the men in the Midwest are not very assertive when it comes to making the move on a woman. In fact, the only way you can know if a Midwestern man is interested in you is if he’s not talking to you. I wish [...]]]></description>
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<p>I’m from a small town in Wisconsin, and the men in the Midwest are not very assertive when it comes to making the move on a woman. In fact, the only way you can know if a Midwestern man is interested in you is if he’s not talking to you. I wish I were kidding.<br />
So since I moved to New York a few years ago, it’s been interesting to see how men of other cultures try to get the attention of ladies.<span id="more-2327"></span></p>
<p>Urban black men will just yell things. Most of the time it’s garden-variety catcalling, from “MMM MMM!!! I wanna eat you up!” to crass “I WANT YOU TO COME OVAH HEAH AND SIT ON MAH FACE GIRLIE!” (from a homeless guy sitting on a stoop one morning).</p>
<p><a href="http://www.theredheadsaid.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/07/Screen-shot-2011-07-09-at-8.32.07-PM.png" rel="lightbox[2327]"><img class="alignleft size-full wp-image-2332" style="margin-left: 10px; margin-right: 10px;" title="Screen shot 2011-07-09 at 8.32.07 PM" src="http://www.theredheadsaid.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/07/Screen-shot-2011-07-09-at-8.32.07-PM.png" alt="" width="182" height="187" /></a>Sometimes I don’t think they are even sure what method they are using. Once a subway bench dweller started chatting me up while we both waiting for our train. He looked me up and down and in an admiring voice said, “Well aren’t you pretty. Look at your pretty red hair and pretty skirt. Pretty pretty pretty.” Then after a pause he added, “Are you a gold digger?”</p>
<p>But occasionally you will hear something sweet. One day while walking past one of those “lost men” homes, an elderly black man called out to me, “If you was mah girl, I would treat you so good.”</p>
<p>South African men get right to point, “You are very beautiful, are you married?” without the warm-up of any small talk.</p>
<p>I think I like the style of Dominican men. A friend of mine said that once, when walking in the Dominican part of Brooklyn, a man a block away yelled in her direction, “HEY BEEG BUTTED WOOMAN!”</p>
<p style="text-align: center;"><a href="http://www.theredheadsaid.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/07/Screen-shot-2011-07-09-at-7.39.26-PM.png" rel="lightbox[2327]"><img class="aligncenter size-full wp-image-2329" title="Screen shot 2011-07-09 at 7.39.26 PM" src="http://www.theredheadsaid.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/07/Screen-shot-2011-07-09-at-7.39.26-PM.png" alt="" width="347" height="339" /></a></p>
<p>Latino men often make a kissy kissy sound when I walk by. Then a friend told me that Latino men like a redhead with a big ass, so there&#8217;s that.</p>
<p><a href="http://www.theredheadsaid.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/07/Screen-shot-2011-07-09-at-8.19.33-PM.png" rel="lightbox[2327]"><img class="alignleft size-full wp-image-2331" style="margin-left: 10px; margin-right: 10px;" title="Screen shot 2011-07-09 at 8.19.33 PM" src="http://www.theredheadsaid.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/07/Screen-shot-2011-07-09-at-8.19.33-PM.png" alt="" width="200" height="278" /></a>The Orthodox Jewish religion is something completely new to me. I haven’t been directly hit on by them, but I do notice their eyes over my curves when I’m wandering through Williamsburg, Brooklyn sometimes. One day a younger Hasid with the curly sideburn hair started walking alongside me, and I anxiously waited to hear his pitch.<br />
“You look kind&#8230;”<br />
(<em>Well that’s a good intro&#8230;</em>)<br />
“Would you consider a donation?”<br />
I said, “No, sorry I don’t have any cash.”<br />
“How about a check?”</p>
<p><em>Ah, “kind” equals “sucker.”</em></p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>I haven’t really been hit on by Indian men &#8211; I don’t think that’s their modus operandi, but one night when walking in the East Village wearing a form-fitting knit dress, a very tiny Indian man said quietly as we passed on the sidewalk, “Nice bohdee.”</p>
<p><a href="http://www.theredheadsaid.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/07/Screen-shot-2011-07-09-at-7.52.46-PM.png" rel="lightbox[2327]"><img class="alignleft size-full wp-image-2330" style="margin-left: 10px; margin-right: 10px;" title="Screen shot 2011-07-09 at 7.52.46 PM" src="http://www.theredheadsaid.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/07/Screen-shot-2011-07-09-at-7.52.46-PM.png" alt="" width="203" height="324" /></a>But my favorite attempted pickup story started one day while I was waiting for a friend on the sidewalk in front of a West Village cafe.<br />
I was answering an email on my phone, but was aware of a man looking at me, and walking back and forth in front of me. I looked up, and he was Italian, wearing the Aviator sunglasses, white jeans without socks and with long floppy over-gelled hair.</p>
<p>He was appreciating me at length, ok. But then, the clapping.</p>
<p>The man was APPLAUDING me.<br />
“BELLISIMA! BELLISIMA! Has anyone told you how FABULOUS you look today?”</p>
<p>No, no they hadn’t.<br />
I shot him an “in your dreams” look as I walked away, but secretly I was smiling.<br />
Wisconsin women do like being applauded occasionally.</p>
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		<title>Pass The Baton-Consignment and history</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 03 Jul 2011 19:27:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Charlene Jaszewski</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[<p>When you buy something at a vintage or consignment shop, you know it has a history. Would you like to know what it is?</p> <p>Pass The Baton &#8211; a consignment shop in Tokyo, is giving its customers just such a peek into its items.</p> <p>This is a novel concept, but even more novel when you [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>When you buy something at a vintage or consignment shop, you know it has a history. Would you like to know what it is?</p>
<p>Pass The Baton &#8211; a consignment shop in Tokyo, is giving its customers just such a peek into its items.</p>
<p>This is a novel concept, but even more novel when you consider that traditionally (at least in the last century), the Japanese have been very much a mass-consumption culture. My little brother lived there as an exchange student for several years and he remarked how quick the Japanese were to churn through possessions. Throwing away things if they got scratched or damaged at all (then again, not that Americans are much better)</p>
<p>[vimeo video_id="25576639" width="400550" height="400" title="Yes" byline="Yes" portrait="Yes" autoplay="No" loop="No" color="00adef"]</p>
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		<title>Pegging Questionnaire: the results (NSFW)</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 24 Jun 2011 02:04:53 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Charlene Jaszewski</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[<p>Oops, I got ADD and totally forgot to post these results on my questionnaire on pegging. If you don&#8217;t know what pegging is, it&#8217;s when a woman straps on a dildo and has sex with a man, in the only way she really can. Also known as &#8220;bend over boyfriend.&#8221;</p> <p>There&#8217;s really not much discussion [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Oops, I got ADD and totally forgot to post these results on my questionnaire on pegging. If you don&#8217;t know what pegging is, it&#8217;s when a woman straps on a dildo and has sex with a man, in the only way she really can. Also known as &#8220;bend over boyfriend.&#8221;</p>
<p>There&#8217;s really not much discussion about things like this, so what better than to ask random Facebook and Twitter friends their opinions on it? Here are the results.</p>
<p>There aren&#8217;t any naughty pictures, but the subject matter is obviously NSFW.</p>
<p><span id="more-2313"></span><a href="http://www.theredheadsaid.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/06/Screen-shot-2011-06-23-at-9.47.34-PM.png" rel="lightbox[2313]"><img class="alignleft size-full wp-image-2318" title="Screen shot 2011-06-23 at 9.47.34 PM" src="http://www.theredheadsaid.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/06/Screen-shot-2011-06-23-at-9.47.34-PM.png" alt="" width="734" height="169" /></a></p>
<p><a href="http://www.theredheadsaid.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/06/Screen-shot-2011-06-23-at-9.47.42-PM.png" rel="lightbox[2313]"><img class="alignleft size-full wp-image-2317" title="Screen shot 2011-06-23 at 9.47.42 PM" src="http://www.theredheadsaid.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/06/Screen-shot-2011-06-23-at-9.47.42-PM.png" alt="" width="730" height="164" /></a></p>
<p><a href="http://www.theredheadsaid.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/06/Screen-shot-2011-06-23-at-9.47.49-PM.png" rel="lightbox[2313]"><img class="alignleft size-full wp-image-2316" title="Screen shot 2011-06-23 at 9.47.49 PM" src="http://www.theredheadsaid.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/06/Screen-shot-2011-06-23-at-9.47.49-PM.png" alt="" width="729" height="196" /></a></p>
<p><a href="http://www.theredheadsaid.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/06/Screen-shot-2011-06-23-at-9.47.58-PM.png" rel="lightbox[2313]"><img class="alignleft size-full wp-image-2315" title="Screen shot 2011-06-23 at 9.47.58 PM" src="http://www.theredheadsaid.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/06/Screen-shot-2011-06-23-at-9.47.58-PM.png" alt="" width="729" height="198" /></a></p>
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<p><a href="../wp-content/uploads/2011/06/Screen-shot-2011-06-23-at-9.48.06-PM.png" rel="lightbox[2313]"><img title="Screen shot 2011-06-23 at 9.48.06 PM" src="../wp-content/uploads/2011/06/Screen-shot-2011-06-23-at-9.48.06-PM.png" alt="" width="728" height="212" /></a><strong>7. If you aren&#8217;t interested in pegging, why not? This is anonymous, so if you could be honest that would be fantastic. </strong></p>
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<li>It could be painful!</li>
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<li>It  was a request from a hetero male friend. We&#8217;ve had fun together in the  past so I was happy to oblige. He enjoyed it but it didn&#8217;t turn me on.</li>
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<li>I&#8217;m  not interested in anal sex of any kind. I watch gay porn, but only w/  Jo and bj.   I am interested in having a strap on with women, but not men. I feel  very uncomfortable w/ the idea of having a strap on around a guy, bc he  has an actual dick. Even around women I&#8217;d be insecure, but I would if a  woman w/ one. I bought one just for this purpose but got a bf and now I  can&#8217;t.</li>
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<li>wouldn&#8217;t  say either way. seems painful but I&#8217;m adventurous. And some girls and  gays say after awhile it feels good. and some girls can&#8217;t cum without  it. so I&#8217;d say being a huge pussy about a painful asshole is where I&#8217;m  at right now.Most simply, the idea doesn&#8217;t turn me on. At all. Sodomy in general just seems degrading to me.</li>
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<ul>
<li>Particular circumstances (i.e. the right guy) haven&#8217;t happened, I&#8217;d be game if they were I suppose!</li>
</ul>
<ul>
<li>I&#8217;m not interested in anal sex of any kind.</li>
<li>
<p id="ta_text.220471601-0-1187143198">Just wasn&#8217;t as fun as we expected I guess.</p>
</li>
<li>
<p id="ta_text.220471601-0-1187142285">I&#8217;ve  done it to have anal sex with a woman, because she was into it. I&#8217;m not  interested in it because I don&#8217;t much eroticize the ass. And why not? I  don&#8217;t know. I just like cunt better. Probably familiarity.</p>
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<li>
<p id="ta_text.220471601-0-1187139195">I do the stroking&#8230; not receiving.</p>
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<li>
<p id="ta_text.220471601-0-1187139195">It is gay and I WOULD feel emasculated.  And it&#8217;s gross.  Same reason some girls don&#8217;t do anal.</p>
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<li>
<p id="ta_text.220471601-0-1187139195">No  partner ever suggested it. And I&#8217;d feel emasculated. I&#8217;d also feel  uncomfortable. I dread the part of the annual check-up where the doctor  slips his finger up my ass. It hurts.</p>
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<li>It&#8217;s  not icky or anything, but strap-ons in particular strike me the same  way as French Maid costumes: inescapably silly. (Though if my partner  were into it, I&#8217;d be willing to set that aside.)</li>
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<ul>
<li>There  are usually so many other options on the table through anal (if she&#8217;s  into that, though I&#8217;m not really), manual (mutal masturbation, etc),  oral, or vaginal, and all the possible positions&#8230;then you have public  sex, role play, toys, food, other fetishes that one only discovers  through being really relaxed, open and honest with your partner&#8230; I  really don&#8217;t feel comfortable handing over control like that I guess  (and it just doesn&#8217;t sound appealing to me, personally).  Even when I  look at porn, I am not interested in anal, male or female, maybe I&#8217;m  just a freak.</li>
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<ul>
<li>Definitely  seems like the sort of thing that would make me FEEL homosexual. And  although I have no problem with anyone who IS, that&#8217;s just certainly NOT  my thing. Interesting survey!</li>
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<li>I&#8217;d feel like it could either suggest that I was gay (or bi) to my partner, or end up emasculating me in a fairly permanent way.</li>
<li>
<p id="ta_text.220471601-0-1187082400">I would prefer to be the bottom.</p>
</li>
<li>
<p id="ta_text.220471601-0-1187080378">It was not horrible but not as exciting as I thought it would be.</p>
</li>
<li>
<p id="ta_text.220471601-0-1187078568">I don&#8217;t like things going in my butthole.</p>
</li>
<li>
<p id="ta_text.220471601-0-1187074538">seems gay</p>
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<li>
<p id="ta_text.220471601-0-1187074663">While  my wife does enjoy anal sex, I don&#8217;t feel like I would. The few  experiences I&#8217;ve had with a finger are the evidence I need to draw that  conclusion.</p>
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<li>
<p id="ta_text.220471601-0-1187073923">man, that avenue is exit only</p>
</li>
<li>
<p id="ta_text.220471601-0-1187071994">My boyfriend and I have agreed that it&#8217;s a &#8220;no fly zone&#8221; for both of us. Just not anything we&#8217;re into.</p>
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<p id="ta_text.220471601-0-1187071994">it&#8217;s  been a fantasy of mine for many years. I have a friend who said he  would let me do it to him, but I don&#8217;t think that&#8217;ll ever happen. in the  meantime, I&#8217;m working on my partner <img src='http://www.theredheadsaid.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_wink.gif' alt=';)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
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